Attention New Parents: It’s Okay to Give Your Dog Boundaries

For many new parents, your first baby wasn’t human, it was a four-legged, tail-wagging bundle of joy. That once-spoiled pup had the full attention of their humans… until things changed. Suddenly there’s a new little family member in the house, and it can feel overwhelming to balance both needs.

But here’s the good news: this doesn’t have to be a stressful transition. Your dog can absolutely be included in your growing family and I’m here to give you permission to set healthy, necessary boundaries.

This article is especially geared toward high-drive dogs who can be more challenging around babies and small children. If your dog is a couch potato and doesn’t need much structure, that’s great too, but many families benefit from the following guidelines.

Helpful Boundaries for a Smooth Baby–Dog Transition

• Baby’s Room:
It’s perfectly okay to make the nursery a dog-free zone. This gives you breathing room and creates a calm, safe space for your baby.

• Teach a Solid Place Command:
A reliable “place” helps your dog stay settled and out of the way while you’re nursing, changing, or bathing your baby.

• Crate Train Your Dog:
Crate training becomes invaluable when you need your dog safe and contained without worrying about what they’re getting into. It also offers them a healthy decompression space.

• Walks With the Stroller:
Include your dog on walks, but start practicing before your baby arrives. Teach a calm heel next to the stroller now, so it’s second nature later.

• Quiet Time & Barking:
If your dog is an excessive barker, it’s worth addressing this before the baby comes home. Calmness is a skill, and it can and should be taught.

• Make Time for Your Dog:
Don’t forget to schedule intentional one-on-one time. Simple enrichment games, like hiding toys or food around the house, can go a long way toward keeping your dog fulfilled and connected.

There are so many ways to create healthy boundaries, encourage quiet time, and still show your dog the love, exercise, and stimulation they need. A structured dog is a happier dog and structure helps your home feel peaceful for everyone.